We are never getting back together!.... :)

Taylor swift, in my opinion has a very catchy song. Not only does this song speak to what i am personally feeling at the moment (atm), I also like the song. Which you can listen to, if you have never heard of it.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShKM0ZVM9hI, 

This song raises a question, Why are so many people in which sounds like Girls or women are telling men that they are never getting back together? 

My answer on this question: (I want to know what your answer is also) It's because most girls, myself included are safe. They know it's hard for us to actually truly say No, were done and mean it. I personally know it's hard for me to just turn my back completely on the fact that we ever had a relationship, just trying to be friends. What if he does get another girlfriend, we are friends so that will be awkward  for me to see them together. It will also prove that he truly got over me unless he was trying to make me jealous which would back fire into making me be more friendly and squish any feeling for him so they can be happy together......which is going off topic. 

Final Answer to question is : We will take them back, even with the hurt and lies Just Because we love them and until we don't.....We can't/ don't want to say "We are never ever ever getting back together!"

Voice your opinion on this matter. :)

To be compassionate isn't as nice as it sounds.

Hello,

I have always wondered why i cared so much for others because i was always the one getting hurt.
Recently,  "My boyfriend" was acting differently which meant that he stopped communicating with me. I am away at college and I have always said "I can't do long distance relationships." Well go figure I try to have one.
Before i left for college we would communicate by text, through phone calls or when we saw each other at church and church events. So we would talk everyday. Every one knew i was going back to college so we planned for what we would do when i wasn't in range anymore. Well.......That didn't happen. The communication stopped  not as soon as I got back to college but like a week later.
That's the back story for this blog posting, So i wondered why i cared so much, why i do more than others do, why do i feel as if i am pulling teeth to get him to talk to me when it wasn't a challenge or thought before i left. (I have felt like this for years even during childhood but i recently was fed up enough to see what or why.)
I searched this website (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/spiritual-wisdom-secular-times/201106/compassion-really-hurts) and found out that i am compassionate.
This (Which i didn't know) means "to suffer" usually pain emotionally, physically or both. I am like so because i care, i have to be in pain and i can't get rid of it? I am born to be a compassionate person? This hurts! But God knows who can handle what and who can't.
The lord must be holding me and guiding me through because there are many times when i wanted to throw in the towel,when i have but i always end up picking the towel back up again because without it i don't feel right.
I am one who can be stepped on many times and still find a way to make you smile.
I have be lied one by my best friend and still be friends with them.
I have been looked down at, but i give you a reason to move on.
I have been laughed at....many times
I have been Judged by those who are super close to me, knew me for years.
I have had a Bruised heart. ( God has it so it can never get broken )
I have been misunderstood
But GOD said my child can handle this for i am with her.

I do smile in a room full of sad people and change the atmosphere
I Laugh out loud in an empty hallway and Hear others in there room laugh back
I Can make any situation peaceful
I will dance in the face of negativity
I know how to put out a fire of sadness
I am cheerful when no one else is and they walk away cheerful as well.
I can do all things through Christ! 

So compassion isn't easy but noone ever said it would be. :)

What are your thoughts, questions and lovely encouraging comments to me or others.
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Hello, Nice to meet you. Here is who I am.

God Gave us a lovely day.
Good Morning, Evening or Night :)

I just want to Introduce myself.

I am God Girl, which is also a hint to my reglious views but i am also open minded about a few topics. I believe everyone has a choice and a right to say whatever they want but on my blog please out of respect DO NOT CURSE. I personally don't like it.
RESPECT OTHERS who are also commenting. With every comment please have something nice to say about my blog, how i am doing or something another commentor said.
I think that god gave you a choice to choose between good and evil, with that being said you are entitled to your opinion. I am not going to judge and if you want to know why please look in the bible for the resources as to why. 

I love LOVE!!  Anything Sparkly, Snow globes, Helping people (until you start trying to use me) and my favorite color is PINK :) secondary is GOLD :) :)

Ok now you know a bit about me let's get to my blog.

I will be talking about a variety of topic that will be related to me personally, something i want to share in the moment, What i read or hear on the news or in class, A song, comment or quote that i may have heard, overheard or seen.

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